Summer is here, and with it comes that familiar mix of excitement and overwhelm. Whether you're juggling work calls with kids at your feet or spending long days at home together, the shift in rhythm is real. The routines we’ve come to rely on start to bend or completely fall away, and suddenly, we’re all in uncharted territory.

And in the middle of all this unpredictability, we still crave connection. We want to laugh together, to slow down, and to make real memories. So, how do we make that possible when everything else feels up in the air?

Start with Mindset

My first focus point is always on mindset, meeting this season with curiosity and compassion, especially toward ourselves. Summer invites us out of routine, and that calls for flexibility, not just in our plans, but in how we think and what we expect. Things won’t always go as planned, and that’s okay. What matters most is knowing that your little one will have you to count on when things feel off balance, because at some point, they will.

Keep a Gentle Structure

I’ve found that a simple, steady structure, like one outing per day, helps me feel less scattered and keeps the kids from getting overtired. Keeping wake-up and bedtimes consistent isn’t just about your child’s sleep; it’s also about your own sense of calm. When some things stay steady, you feel more anchored, too.

Try to keep the non-negotiables in place when you can: wake-up time, bedtime, and regular meals. These daily anchors help your child’s internal rhythm stay on track. Even if naps happen in the car or your plans change midday, they give everyone something steady to rely on.

I like to say: one day out of rhythm, then one or two days back in rhythm. This gentle balance helps you reset without pressure. It’s not about perfection, it’s about noticing when things are off and slowly guiding them back.

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Mealtimes Matter

Mealtimes are another powerful way to create rhythm. Offer meals at regular times, even if your little one is already eating more than just milk. One strategy I’ve found helpful is prepping and freezing food over the weekend. That way, when your day is full or unpredictable, you still have nourishing portions ready to go.

Children shouldn’t have to wait to eat just because the restaurant isn’t ready or the family meal is delayed. And relying on snacks to “hold them over” often backfires. Predictable, balanced meals support digestion, energy, and mood, and help avoid the spiral of crankiness that can unravel a day.

Restaurant food or convenience snacks can be hit or miss. A tummy ache, a sugar crash, or overtiredness can quickly throw off the day and the night. I used to prep and freeze single portions on Fridays during my cooking marathon, so when I was schlepping Daniel to his older siblings’ late-afternoon activities, he could eat on time, supporting his digestion, sleep, and overall rhythm.

Protect Your Family Dynamics with Boundaries

You and your family come first. That means taking your needs—and your child’s needs—into account before making plans. Not the other way around. The focus here is on setting kind but firm boundaries that preserve everyone’s well-being and make time together more enjoyable.

Ask yourself:
What boundaries do I need in place so things still feel right for me and my family?

Consider what matters most: the timing of an event, the location, how long you’ll stay, whether there’s food your child will eat, or how many transitions the day includes. Then communicate clearly and kindly. Boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re the conditions that allow you to stay connected and calm.

Even if it feels awkward at first, setting expectations in advance creates more ease in the moment.

I often have family visiting from France, and when I plan to meet them with my kids, I already think ahead, how long is too long? What will help us enjoy this time instead of pushing through it? I let them know what time we’ll need to leave as we’re making the plans, not in the middle of the visit. That way, there’s no surprise or guilt when the moment comes to say goodbye.

I also usually feed my kids before we leave, even if we’re meeting for a meal. Because if that meal runs late (which it often does!), hungry little ones can turn a sweet outing into a meltdown. And if the meal is on time? They just eat a little less, and that’s totally fine. It’s one small thing that protects the peace.

As the season stretches out before you, remember: a little rhythm, a lot of presence, and a few kind boundaries go a long way. You don’t have to do everything or be everywhere. You just have to show up steady and attuned, and that is more than enough.

Coming Up in Part 2:

We’ll talk about how to prepare your child for new experiences, what bedtime can look like while traveling or hosting, and why boredom might be one of the best gifts you can offer this summer.

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